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The following questions will help you evaluate
the services offered by potential adoption facilitators,
adoption agencies or adoption lawyers.
GENERAL QUESTIONS TO GET YOU STARTED
Check
to see that the adoption agency is registered with
the Department of Social Services in your state.
Check
with the Department of Social Services to see if there
are any formal complaints on record against the agency.
Does
the agency perform open adoptions? (Where the birth
parents and adoptive parents might have limited contact
and information.)
What
are the itemized fees for services for the adoptive
parents? What type of fee scale is used? Are there
set fees with a contract?
What
are the itemized birth parent fees (where applicable)
that are the responsibility of the adoptive parents?
Does the agency request additional moneys for "donations,"
legal costs or additional medical tests for the child?
What
is an estimated cost for the entire adoption domestic
or international including all fees, additional medical
costs, lawyers, etc.
What
are the agency's experience and statistics concerning
adoption disruptions?
How
much money is refundable if the adoption process is
disrupted?
What
services does the agency offer to prospective adoptive
parents? Do the services offered differ with the type
of adoption chosen (open, closed, domestic, and international)?
Does the agency have pre-adoption and post-adoption
support groups or post-adoption play groups or contacts
for support?
What
are the waiting periods for the initial interview,
home study with a social worker, placement of a child,
and finalizing the adoption process?
Does
the agency provide the social worker and home study?
If not, do they recommend services?
Are
healthy children available right now? What are the
ages of the children who are available? May you request
a particular gender for adoption?
What
other states and agencies will the chosen adoption
agency work with if any?
What
restrictions are placed on potential adoptive parents?
(Age, education, religion, race, physical challenges,
chronic illness, etc.
Will
the agency work with families who already have a biological,
adopted or stepchild or children at home?
What
is the agency's philosophy on working parents? Smokers?
Pets? Single parent families?
ADOPTION AGENCY QUESTIONS
What
is the itemized cost of services? Is there a payment
plan? If there is a disruption of the adoption process,
what portion of the fee is if any?
How
long has the identified/private adoption program been
active? How many placements has the agency made in
the last 12 months? Who locates and finds the birth
parents? How long does it usually take?
What
adoption agencies and what states do they use to find
birth parents? Are search expenses billed to the client
or shared by all agency clients attempting to do an
identified adoption?
Is
counseling required for birth parents? Who is the
provider? Who pays for that service?
How
often is the office/agency in contact with the birth
parent? How are birth parents located?
What
methods are used to locate the birth father? What
are the legal requirements for conducting a birth
parent search in the state where the birth father
is believed to reside?
Is
drug screening required for the birth mother/father?
Where
is the birth mother sent for obstetrical care? Who
monitors the birth mother's obstetrical care? Does
the agency help the birth mother apply for Medicaid
if she has no insurance? Who is responsible for additional
medical costs if any are incurred?
Are
legal contracts used for the birth mother, birth father,
and prospective adoptive couples? (The agency should
provide samples of all legal contracts for your review.)
If
the adoption occurs in another state, what are the
state adoption laws and interstate compact requirements
concerning residency, and time periods for signing
and revoking consents and terminating parental rights?
What
amount of contact is required between the birth parents
and the prospective adoptive parents? Can the adoptive
parents decide about the amount of contact?
INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION
What
is the current availability of children? What countries
does the agency work with? How many children has the
agency placed in the last year?
How
are biological parental rights severed?
What
is the average age of the child at placement and arrival?
What
medical information is available on the child, and
where is that information from? If additional medical
tests are required, who is financially responsible
for the tests?
At
what point does the adoptive parent's financial responsibility
begin?
Does
the agency offer escort service to the US? If travel
to a country is necessary, does the agency have representatives
in that country to assist with the paperwork, courts,
housing, etc.?
What
is the average length of stay in the country? What
is the average cost to stay in the country? Who provides
travel arrangements, hotel rooms, transportation to
court, etc.
QUESTIONS TO ASK AN ADOPTION LAWYER
Verify
that the lawyer is licensed with the Department of
Social Services or the Lawyer Regulation Unit in your
state.
Ask
the Department of Social Services and the Lawyer Regulation
Unit if there are any pending or previous lawsuits
against the attorney.
How
long has the lawyer been working in the field of adoption
and providing adoption services?
How
many adoption cases has the lawyer processed within
the last twelve months?
Does
the lawyer have legal contacts in other states?
Are
there clients who have used their legal services who
are willing to speak with prospective adoptive parents?
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